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2-4-2010~Friday

There is a lot of new things coming up. We are in the process of getting our fund-raising underway.
All money goes toward strengthening communities all over the world. It should be a great
experience. If you would like to help us out. Contact Us: ASAP










5/21/2010~Friday~
Our Public Lives http://abcnews.go.com/WhatWouldYouDo/syndrome-grocery-clerk-scenario/story?id=10648284&page=1

lt is a very interesting topic that has come up, and it is one that I
know I think of often. I had a dear friend post this video. She opened
up a topic board about how people feel about this. Also, what would YOU DO
if it happened to you?
Almost everyday, I come across someone who is ill willed or has a very rash
and angry temper. Working for a non profit that centers around ties and
communicating positively, well it can be a real challange.

The video that was posted only describes a situation with someone who
is labeled as having a handicap, but unfortunately; these things happen
to everyone in all walks of life. I think it is important to realize that,
because when we say it is only one way or the other we limit ourselves
from solutions. So saying that, these
things happen to almost everyone.

Time and time again I see two common situations play out in the
environment that I live. One situation is a women that is yelling or
talking very loud to her husband or friends in public. The other is
women yelling at and jerking the arms of their child in public. I think
that these acts are both very inappropriate in public.
They cause a trickle down of negativity, that continues in the cycle
of abuse at their own homes. In order to reach all of you wonderful
dreams, you have to be a good example to others, and in order to do so you
have to put your foot down very hard about what is right, what is wrong. It is
not enough to just say, "okay, I will change". This won't work, because
you haven't stripped the problems layers down to the core issue.

The truth for many of us is that we all hide the bad side of ourselves
because we all want to feel needed and loved. Strong, independent,
and leading individuals can say to themselves, "there are times that I will feel
loved, and there are times that I will not; but if I am not feeling loved or needed;
I will make myself happy". You don't have to run out and buy a fancy new outfit or
flash your money, go and do something that you have loved or love to do in
the past and want to try again. For me, it is roller skating, or feeding the ducks at our
local pond. Neither of these things are expensive and both are relaxing.

It IS very frustrating to be a mother. It often feels like a very unrewarding
and exhausting job. However, it is not our jobs as mothers to belittle our
child or make them feel like we are more important than them. Children always
want to be listened to and understood. They are the exact same as adults in
this way. If they are not being heard, they will act out. When you ignore a
child that acts out once, it will only escalate. This is one reason
why you will see many women reprimanding their child in public. Ignoring
the problem will not make it go away.
Then, the child will only be more and more resilient and eventually YOU will
be the only one making a very embarrassing skeptical in front of a lot of very
important members in your community. Which will only add to the intensity of the problem
until it is fully resolved.
So, even though these people are understanding, they
can not help but see that you do not have it under control. To control this,
try taking your child outside at your home and helping them set up a discovery station.

Talk with them about how they see things, rocks, sand, grass, birds.
They have a treasure of knowledge that they will want to share with you.
Do not ever be scared to ask your child questions about how they feel,
that is why you are a parent for them. If they do not feel like they
can be 100% honest with you, then this will only add to the drama.
Be prepared for the child to say things that you find odd or crazy.
This is how children think. Let their imaginations take them to the answer that
you are asking about how they feel, and never interrupt them. When you respect
those that are smaller than you, you will learn a great deal about how to treat those
that are your size or bigger. Please, ladies give the man in your life the gratitude
that he deserves. Things are not always going how you want, and life will
make things hard for you sometimes. Please always remember that men
protect and care for us a great deal.


One last note, children and others in the community are very in tune to when someone
is not living their life to what is expected. We are placed here with ideas and dreams
because they are meant to be communicated and used to help others going through
tough situations.

So concluding, no one likes to be around someone who is always using a harsh
tone, is condensending towards others, or just generally unpolite. If you go home
everyday with no one calling you to have fun, this is a key indication that you are
not a positive person. Just because you are negative, does not make you that
way for life. Do not be afraid to be happy and to be positive, no one is going
to come after you for helping or caring too much.






12/29/2009~Wednesday~

The Modern Price Of Human Expression


Modern day human expression is best seen in our media and entertainment
industries. Multi million dollar music and other forms of art are being made by the dozen. If you are
a talented writer, singer, artist, or model someone is probably lurking in the distance secretively
putting a price on your talent.
In one point in your career you will begin to wonder, what is the real price of our entertainment
industries? It is quite a costly one when you really begin to think about it. Human expression
through the arts has been around far beyond what our ancestors could ever recall. Music, for instance
was used as a primary source of communication. Music and art was a ritual to call upon unearthly
magic and to help aid the needs of the community. Community was very important, and thought
of as a whole and one entity. Music and art created by it was not bought nor sold.

Most consider the modern stipulations such as copyright laws as " needed protection" against
those distortingthe intent of the piece. It has to make you wonder why that is really so important
though. Does the maker of the work really think they are going to be the best
at performing it? Is it really that important if someone uses a work that you created? What does our
own egos really cost us in the long run? What happened to the old adage," it is best to give than
to receive"? In my own experience, it IS far better to give than to receive. By giving you are in
the sense receiving a reward far greater than anything that you could ever imagine
here on Earth. By giving to others, you receive protection and comfort that you would not have
sensed otherwise.There should never be put a price put on someones talent and message. The Art
were not intended to have become a gambling game. Of whether the musician can or can not make
another best seller.
Artist, musicians, and performers were made to communicate a message, not to sell it to
everyone with a secret code that we must all run out to buy and then decipher. The message is
simple and should never have to be bought. Help those in need, bring them happiness, love
yourself and your neighbors, and help to create positive change.


12/26/2009 ~Saturday~

Why Is This Person Picking On Me? How To Live With A Bully

Bullies
Bullies are no longer just a grade school situation. Bullies are every where.
We are writing to inform you about what a bully is and how to protect
yourself against their harassment.
What is a bully?
Our definition of a bully is any one that uses physical or mental abuse to
gain control of a situation. Most bullies feel helpless and the situation that
they are trying to control, really doesn't mean that much to them as that
they are constantly being misunderstood.
In order to understand how to protect yourself and others from bullies, you
must know why bullies are who they are.
Most bullies are great people. They do not mean to become violent and
abusive. More often than known, they are using their negativity towards
you as a cry for help. Bullies often play"defensive" roles in their
relationships at their house. Often they come from households where
emotions are not expressed and if so, in a constantly hostile way. A bully
has been bullied, is what we are trying to say.
When a bully comes to you and criticizes you are forces themselves onto
you. The best thing for you to do is to turn the other cheek. Remain calm,
count to 100 in your head if you have to. Think through what if anything
you will say back to them. If you decide to comment a negative comment
back to the bully, they may become violent if the situation were only
mental abuse. If it were mental abuse and you did not think thoroughly
about what you will say back, you may worsen the mental abuse to becom-ing
physical abuse.
Friend a bully. If your bully is persistent, make a choice to make your bully
your friend. You don't have to invite them over to your house, but do let them
know that just because they choose you to pick on, doesn't make you a pushover. Realize
that there is a "greater reason" to why this person picked you to harass.
Do not become vengeful towards your bully. Being nasty will only worsen the
outcome. Remain calm at all times.





How To Survive: Single/Alone & The Holidays

Holidays are always associated with being close to those that you love.
In today's modern world, sometimes that just isn't possible.
The added stress of a career and finances has driven many of us apart
from holiday traditions. Here is how you can cope during
the holidays if you are finding yourself alone; whether because you are
single, or on business away from the family.

1.) Feeling sorry for yourself will only take you so far. Usually, it
will only take you one place first and that is "down".
Realize negative thoughts, and fight them. When we take power over our
own thinking; we change our lives for the better.
2.) Make a list of your holiday "responsibilities" and then another column
with your holiday "wishes".
*after you finish your holiday responsibilities, begin to list everything
you had wanted to do this year but never did under the "wishes" column.
You will probably be amazed at how time has flown. These little wishes
that were never fulfilled add to holiday stress and
our daily feeling of "blahs".
3.) Do all of your responsibilities at one time, and then start on your wishes.
You will be amazed at how quickly you can finish all of your responsibilities;
and the extra time you have over to think about yourself.
4.) All dreams and goals can be realized if you have the confidence in yourself
and the faith that it can happen. If you can't
do the most outlandish activity on your wish list; start with the smallest step.
Ex: I thought I would start a Broadway career by now. Instead, go out and enter
a Karaoke contest or buy yourself a microphone and start recording.
5.) Fill your body with healthy foods and drink plenty of water. What we eat
affects how we are and act towards others.
6.) If you have to work on the holidays, make it special by remembering those
that have made your life easier this year.
Examples: We often remember the post man, but what about the post office? What
about that favorite restaurant you always go to each week? What about your local
stores? They all work hard to make your day brighter
and happier.
7.) Don't forget your vitamins~
8.) Go outside, try a park, take a walk. Fresh air is energizing. Take along
your camera or voice recorder.
9.) Roller rinks are not only for kids. You can see professional skaters there too.
Go for a skate at your local skate rink.
10.) This one never fails, make a point to make a new friend or "friends" this holiday.
Step outside of your safety zone and make a point to involve yourself around people
with different opinions and cultures.
11.) Reflect on your situation. Take time to truly reflect your life this year.
If you are single b/c of a misfortune; consider what you do have. Do you have
a roof over your head? A good job? Are you educated? Consider those that are
truly without this season. Donate to women's and men's homeless shelters. Often
there are children involved too, remember toys this season.



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